Wedding Planning and Life Crises | Q&A | More Hannah January 18, 2020 100 By Kailee Schamberger CategoryArticles BlogTagsadvice dating tips hannah hannah witton how to be productive influencer life crisis marriage organisation planning Productivity proposal q & a quarter life crisis question relationship advice sex and relationship education sex education sex education series two the book thief tips wedding wedding planning wedding video witton youtube youtuber 100 Comments Reinaldo Velez says: January 16, 2020 at 4:54 pm Hi Hannah,💟 ur sweater.Love u videos! Reply pile333 says: January 16, 2020 at 4:56 pm Nice Hannah's Rorschach sweater Reply toocoolforcapes says: January 16, 2020 at 4:58 pm "To get that watch time" I love when youtubers talk about the behind the scenes, like things viewers can do to help them! Reply David Brewer says: January 16, 2020 at 5:05 pm OMG!!! Reply Clara Louise says: January 16, 2020 at 5:06 pm How did I not know that you studied in Birmingham?? I'm currently spending my term abroad here and I love it very much! Reply Ray Ark says: January 16, 2020 at 5:08 pm Speaking as an educator myself, I think there's a big difference between being qualified and being experienced, and I think a lot of impostor syndrome goes away when you have more experience (in my experience, lol). You are very well qualified to be a sex educator, but you might lack experience of actually doing it (at least face to face – you've been doing it for years on YouTube, but that will feel a lot different to being in a classroom). At some point you have to just get out there. Accept you will make mistakes and then learn from them. ❤ Reply Myles White says: January 16, 2020 at 5:09 pm This is such an amazing video! Congratulations on everything!!! I hope everything goes well for you. 🤗💞💛💛💛💛💛😍😘🥰😭🙏 Reply Sam J says: January 16, 2020 at 5:15 pm “First year is the year to literally throw shit at the wall and see what sticks” hopefully not literally haha! Reply Martha says: January 16, 2020 at 5:16 pm About defining success I've learned that humans tent to think once I do this then I'll be successful. It's called the Hedonic treadmill. No matter what amazing things you do you will always find something else to aim for. Experts say it's about loving the process 🙂 Reply Tina-Marie says: January 16, 2020 at 5:17 pm ok who needs a wedding series from her?!from a fellow youtuber!! Reply Torsee says: January 16, 2020 at 5:21 pm Could you BE more vivacious!Who ever gets to be with you IRL is ridiculously lucky! Reply Valery Olympia says: January 16, 2020 at 5:21 pm Gekko hack; just get a female one; then you’re good no matter what Mustard’s gender is Reply Danielle Snow says: January 16, 2020 at 5:22 pm Will Dan see your dress before the wedding? Reply Vicki Harris says: January 16, 2020 at 5:22 pm I'm in the same quadrant as you but further down on the libertarian scale and about 2 squares to the right of you. That is an interesting test, I'd never heard of before. Definitely had a UK-ness about it, noticeable to me since I'm Canadian. Questions like porn and some education questions seemed odd to me. But I'm guessing are more relevant to someone in the UK.Anyway great video Hannah! Reply Blair Iris says: January 16, 2020 at 5:22 pm Definitely very left for me! Reply Laconicallity says: January 16, 2020 at 5:24 pm I'm left libertarian but almost dead center, one point left and one point down, which reflects how I vote – different parties based on the current platforms. Locally I tend to support a center or outlier party, provincially a left party, and federally right. Reply shesaysdisco says: January 16, 2020 at 5:27 pm RE: Dan’s farts — One time while we were driving out to his parents’ house, my partner had a “silent but deadly” fart and I legitimately thought that we had run over some kind of awful roadkill. He, of course, found this hilarious. Reply D. Jean says: January 16, 2020 at 5:28 pm I'm going to Disney Feb 3-6! I would probably pass out if I met you there Reply Niamh Oddy says: January 16, 2020 at 5:28 pm where did you get these earrings? they are v cute Reply Lonie Hopgd says: January 16, 2020 at 5:29 pm Since I made it all the way to the end of the video, I think I get to be a little nosey: who is Dan's sister? Reply Louise Chase says: January 16, 2020 at 5:33 pm Big up History students!!Also, second the "say yes to everything" – currently second year and on the committee for two societies that I thought I'd never get involved with at the start! Plus, I love figure skating – who knew???? Reply Barry Pate says: January 16, 2020 at 5:35 pm Not all of us blokes are here to perv ….I genuinely enjoy the variety of topics and listening to your advice and recommendations. Keep up the great work in 2020 Reply r mia says: January 16, 2020 at 5:36 pm 20 minutes of hannah?? AMAZING. i am hyped. hope you're doing good <3 Reply Nr Trh says: January 16, 2020 at 5:37 pm Did the political compass just now. Also a left libertarian. But I like your little left libertarian bubble 🙂 It's nice here! 🙂 Reply r mia says: January 16, 2020 at 5:39 pm also can i just say how much i appreciate the perfect captions on your video with no sarcastic/funny comments, nothing except what you're saying (it's infuriating when people try to be funny in their captions because it's like. is that what they're saying? am i missing something? wtf?) it's so useful and very much appreciated :)) Reply Joaquin Fernandez says: January 16, 2020 at 5:41 pm Who's Dan's sister??? I'm curious help Reply Dorissa Claire says: January 16, 2020 at 5:52 pm I once did the political compass and I strongly remember being left and slightly authoritarian…but then I did it more recently and got libertarian, so I’m unsure….I don’t identify as libertarian at all and am not sure what I libertarian beliefs I have? Reply notquiteadegree says: January 16, 2020 at 5:52 pm time and time again it makes me smile how much I relate to your answers to these kinds of questions. Especially the "writing days off" thing and coming back more motivated the next day is something I do all the time and I'm still amazed at how well it works most of the time. Always good to know that there's other people out there thinking alike 😀 Reply Kayla Lords says: January 16, 2020 at 6:12 pm I love that you ended on Dan’s farts. 😂😂😂 Reply Deanna Allman says: January 16, 2020 at 6:14 pm Also left-libertarian so probably Reply Mônica Guidi says: January 16, 2020 at 6:25 pm Hannah suddenly speaking Portuguese got me SHOOK Reply Jessica Benson says: January 16, 2020 at 6:34 pm I would highly recommend against housing more than one leopard gecko together, regardless of their sexes. A male housed with a female can breed with her to the point that she dies, and even two females housed together can become aggressive and hurt each other. It is so so so much safer to house them separately. Reply Sarah Stuart says: January 16, 2020 at 6:43 pm Did you know an appalling sexist and manipulative ad came on with this video for hewillworshipyou.com Reply Lava Yuki says: January 16, 2020 at 6:45 pm London seems like a fun place to live! I'm a city girl too but live in Manchester instead, which is still quite nice and vibrant Reply Brian Koch says: January 16, 2020 at 6:45 pm I love you Reply Lauren Se Kaia says: January 16, 2020 at 6:47 pm You seem so hyper in this video Reply Rita SAC says: January 16, 2020 at 6:51 pm Love your capeira story, I did capoeira when I was younger and I'm portuguese (from portugal, not brasil) :p Reply thinking_about_figures says: January 16, 2020 at 6:54 pm I always forget this is a different channel… Reply Jes Pearl says: January 16, 2020 at 7:05 pm Have you ever done a video on books about sexuality and sex? I would love to buy them all if you did that! I’m going to buy Come As You Are. I also would LOVE a video on polyamory and how to date with a disability already having a current partner. It’s hard for me to leave the house but really would like to meet some new people, especially female. Or do you know anyone would could give advice about polyamory and disability. Would be so helpful. My life is in shambles and would love advice. Reply Hillary Barbour says: January 16, 2020 at 7:07 pm I’m surprised every year that vlognukah hasn’t caught on!!! Seems like such a great alternative to the impossible task of 25 day vlogmas. Reply Lorna Strachan says: January 16, 2020 at 7:19 pm Been down in London the past couple of days and on the go all the time (6.30 train down on Tuesday and 6pm train up on Wednesday and around 4 hour journey). Came home today and planned to sort out all the things I bought for my scrapbook of my trip. Have spent today with no energy or motivation watching youtube all day. Had to cave into it when normally I would beat myself up and remind myself it is okay. Also smack bang middle of that green square in the political compass. Reply Maja Filipovic says: January 16, 2020 at 7:38 pm you actually seem so happy and positive it’s contagious, it put me in a better mood just watching this💛 Reply Jana Blom says: January 16, 2020 at 7:54 pm My political views are very similair to yours. I'm just al little more Liberterian and a little more central left. But that might be a language bariere thing or the fact that I live in the Netherlands instead of the UK. That might also be the reason I was suprised by some off the Questions that where asked. Reply Katy Bechníková says: January 16, 2020 at 7:57 pm Everyone is getting married!!!!!!!!! I don't wanna be married but the pressure is real. Reply catsandstrawberries says: January 16, 2020 at 8:00 pm Love a good Q&A! Reply HarrietTwelveThree says: January 16, 2020 at 8:29 pm I remember all your cooking videos! I can't remember how I found you but I think it was shortly after you started posting videos. Reply WobblyGiraffe says: January 16, 2020 at 9:03 pm I've literally been wishing this week away in anticipation for Sex Education series 2 tomorrow 🤣 the second I get home from work I will not be leaving my sofa! Reply Efoy_Ivy Hund says: January 16, 2020 at 9:03 pm I took the compass, incredibly similar to yours….hehe Reply Kat Trabue says: January 16, 2020 at 9:10 pm Lol, almost the exact same political compass. Reply Ibby Williams says: January 16, 2020 at 9:26 pm how to poach an egg easily!! put a bit of warm/hot water (maybe like 20-30ml? idk) in a small microwaveable bowl. crack the egg in there, cover it and stick it in the microwave for 10-30 second intervals depending on how strong your microwave is. then, use a spoon with holes in to pick it up out of the bowl and drain it and eat. Reply Patrick Chambers says: January 16, 2020 at 9:33 pm For your wedding: Any Jewish traditions? Reply ASquaredOfficial says: January 16, 2020 at 9:49 pm I’m pretty sure that if you contact YouTube they may be able to recover your first YT videos Reply troeler says: January 16, 2020 at 9:51 pm Just when I thought I couldn't like you more.. The story of us!!!! Such an underrated Banger 😭 Reply Yasemin BAHAR says: January 16, 2020 at 9:56 pm Awww I’m very excited 4 you to see Istanbul/Turkey Reply Roger Mclaughlin says: January 16, 2020 at 10:14 pm I am a republican from the USA 🇺🇸. Reply Brian Murphy says: January 16, 2020 at 10:24 pm Lefty Libertarian here too Reply poo rainbow shit says: January 16, 2020 at 11:29 pm Left Libertarian here too Reply Luci Alveroy says: January 16, 2020 at 11:29 pm I've heard before that thing about Dan being one of your friend's brother, I think you talked about it in the podcast Just Between Us when saying your friend wanted to get you two together some time ago but he smoked and you didn't like that! And that you actually started dating once he vaped. I remember cause smoking is also a deal breaker for me to some extent and made a lot of sense to me lol Reply Emilie Coats says: January 16, 2020 at 11:33 pm Oh man! To say you're left and a libertarian if you were in the US is a full on oxymoron 😂😂😂😂 Reply Erin Shay says: January 17, 2020 at 12:03 am Left libertarian! 😊That quiz was enjoyable as well Reply rachelracketrocket says: January 17, 2020 at 12:08 am Left leaning libertarian here too! Reply isabel necessary says: January 17, 2020 at 12:21 am 21:50 Umm I think you must’ve told the story before, I definitely knew it already, I think it was on Banging Book Club? Reply angela ramirez says: January 17, 2020 at 12:30 am I am in the far, far bottom left corner. Interesting. Reply Dalton Fitzgerald says: January 17, 2020 at 12:32 am What do you mean by the phrase “managing expectations”? I usually use that phrase to refer to strategies to keep people from getting their hopes up… but I assume that’s NOT what you mean 😂 “Happiness can be achieved by not expecting too much.” 🤣 Reply Catherine Master says: January 17, 2020 at 12:56 am Hannah! It's funny that you're re-reading The Subtle Knife currently because I just finished re-reading The Golden Compass and started The Amber Spyglass haha Reply Jacqui Z. says: January 17, 2020 at 1:04 am I retook the political compass recently, and I landed right on top of Noam Chomsky. Been in the green square since I started taking it in high school (I’m almost 30 now). Reply SadieMayB says: January 17, 2020 at 1:11 am university of birmingham first year here!!! can confirm that saying yes is KEY! Reply Shaye Eller says: January 17, 2020 at 1:45 am First off, you have EXCELLENT taste in Hamilton songs! Now, about imposter syndrome. I agree with one commenter that sometimes what it takes is time – to gain more experience and feel more confident in what you’re doing. However, one thing that really fast tracked that feeling for me was directing a play. Now, obviously, this won’t work for lots of people because not everyone is a theater artist (and not all theater artists can/want to direct.) But what I took from that experience was familiarity with what it felt like to make a decision and see it carried through without a lot of time spent on *~discussion~*. (Talking more about the tech end, as actors gonna actor and there is often lots of discussion there, as it should be.) People would come to me with a question, I would tell them what to do and they would go do it. YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW GOOD THAT FELT! The play was a success and a few months later I really started to notice that I had a lot more confidence in my day job and I felt like a fraud on the inside way less often. What I think can be taken from that as a practical step is that if you’re able to take on a project in a field you have reasonable proficiency in, and in which your decisions would effectively be unquestioned, I think that can help a lot, especially after it’s successful conclusion. What that project is really will depend on the person’s interests and skills. But I think this experience can be adapted to almost anyone. Failing that, it’s okay to just sit with it. You have imposter syndrome, but you’re faking it and maybe it doesn’t feel good on the inside, but it’s okay to feel our feelings. We’re really quick to try to explain or improve or forget our negative emotions, but sometimes you have to instead forgive yourself for feeling this way. Understand that this feeling is largely held by women and girls and that it’s a product of the patriarchy. I saw a video in which MICHELLE FREAKING OBAMA talked about dealing with imposter syndrome, and man, if she feels it then maybe that will help a few folks understand that the way we see ourselves is not always accurate. And that we don’t have to beat ourselves up for not having the big picture. Reply Catherine Auld says: January 17, 2020 at 1:52 am Great video Hannah. I really like your earrings – where are they from? Reply FractalPandas says: January 17, 2020 at 2:14 am I’m also a left libertarian! Reply Micah Kavich says: January 17, 2020 at 2:45 am My compass is as far left as it goes and very very close to the bottom Reply timoback3000 says: January 17, 2020 at 2:59 am 1st 1000th like Reply Catherine Timaru says: January 17, 2020 at 3:58 am I’m in the same quadrant on the political compass as you but about a few notches to the right and a couple notches upwards 😊 Yessss will be binge watching sex education tomorrow Reply Chloe Brown says: January 17, 2020 at 4:18 am "I'm not wearing a white dress." Calling it now, it's yellow. Reply Jared M says: January 17, 2020 at 4:26 am "I don't know if my degree on a sex subject makes me qualified to talk about sex" HANNAH Reply Chris Holmstrom says: January 17, 2020 at 4:38 am Hannah you can get Dan back with Mona. Burp Mona near Dan and he'll beg for mercy. Works for me at least. Reply Gregory Thomas says: January 17, 2020 at 4:57 am How to keep your sex life alive: Com.mun.ni.ca.tion. It is always about being able to talk with your partner…without communication your relationship will not survive. Do you fart around Dan? Reply Nora Mandelkern says: January 17, 2020 at 5:27 am do you have a goodreads? I would love to see what you read more Reply pyrrhogaster says: January 17, 2020 at 7:02 am Political compass, pretty close to the center of the green, -4.88, -5.54. Is that an echo I hear??? Reply Frances Coleman-Williams says: January 17, 2020 at 7:07 am The book Come As You Are also has a workbook, just wondering if anyone’s got that or has used it? Any review of it? Thanks? Reply Grace Davies says: January 17, 2020 at 8:13 am Love that my two favourite you tubers are getting married in the same year🥰 Reply Niamh Kelly says: January 17, 2020 at 8:40 am I'm in the same quadrant as you for the political compass, but I'm one square to the right, and only one square away from the bottom which is really interesting for me, I assumed I was super left but I guess I'm actually super libertarian and quite left Reply Marianne Shepherd says: January 17, 2020 at 9:33 am Great video! I wondered do you listen to The Emma Guns Show? She recently had Dominic Masters on talking about BDSM, sex and sexuality. Its a very interesting conversation x Reply Amber Harrington says: January 17, 2020 at 9:41 am Im reading the Subtle Knife too! Reply Anna KH says: January 17, 2020 at 10:44 am Ugh, I love the book thief, I literally just finished rereading it for the… fourth time? And then watched the movie again. Have you seen it? I've also applied for a History degree in the UK for this year (I'm from Germany) and your video about your degree was what originally inspired me to even consider that, so thanks a lot! Will for sure consider your advice if I get in. And I'm three boxes lower and one further right than you but still very much left and very much libertarian haha Reply klymers says: January 17, 2020 at 11:42 am I remember wanting to find a subreddit to discuss your videos and instead found a subreddit all about your boobs. It was just so wrong. That might be what motivates me to join the common room Reply Grace Taylor says: January 17, 2020 at 3:32 pm You talking about your grandparents and Dan’s gran watching your videos 🤣 Reply Kafi Mubashera says: January 17, 2020 at 4:23 pm have you watched Call me by your name? i know it came out a few years ago not in 2020, but it came on uk netflix recently and it is INCREDIBLE – its set the bar highhh for films about love/intimacy Reply Fiona McGregor says: January 17, 2020 at 4:40 pm This was fun! Also left libertarian 💛 Reply JAGC says: January 17, 2020 at 5:17 pm Haha, YouTube keeps trying to get me to watch the big boobs suck video's. There is no escaping for men. Reply Adil Farooq says: January 17, 2020 at 5:29 pm 11:09 The really funny thing is that the uni still uses your videos of "Days in a life of a history student" (back when the old library was still alive) or the "Personal Skills award" (which i also completed). I watched those videos before i even knew you were a content creator. Reply shanemjn says: January 17, 2020 at 6:34 pm I'm apparently libertarian right Reply Zakiyah Dockrat says: January 17, 2020 at 7:01 pm Will there be any jewish and/or christian traditions at the wedding? Reply baldo verkeno says: January 17, 2020 at 7:48 pm Random question but are you ticklish? Reply Nectovelius Salavin says: January 17, 2020 at 8:12 pm I am Left Librarian (but just as left, but more libertarian than Hannah) Reply Sunshine34891 says: January 17, 2020 at 10:26 pm very much appreciate you not writing a book just because you 'need to write another book'! just do it when you have another great idea! Reply Zeynep Tuna says: January 17, 2020 at 11:05 pm I am from Istanbul! Is it gonna be a public event? Reply Loz says: January 18, 2020 at 5:15 am I haven't done the political compass since I was in high school (and I'm now 24), but yup still a left-libertarian Reply Tamara Epps says: January 18, 2020 at 10:20 am I am also a left libertarian. Reply Sophia Whettingsteel says: January 18, 2020 at 12:09 pm love that you ended the video on dans farts haha Reply Leave a Reply Cancel replyYour email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *Comment Name * Email * Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment.